What the 23rd anniversary symbolises
Silver plate at year twenty-three is the modern list's pragmatic note, heirloom-quality without the sterling weight. The marriage has earned the gleam. Imperial topaz the gemstone is the rare orange-pink variety.
The historical record
Silver plate filled year 23 in the 1948 modern list. Imperial topaz the gemstone was designated in 1957, drawing on its association with Russian royalty.
Quick picks for the 23rd anniversary
Three picks across the categories most often given. Jewellery for the gemstone match, an experience for the partner who already has things, and a practical gift that respects the traditional symbol.
Gemstone-anchored to the Imperial topaz designation.
Memory-anchored. The gift becomes the photograph.
Anchored to the traditional gift category.
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Frequently asked questions
What is the 23rd anniversary gift?
The traditional 23rd anniversary gift is Silver plate. The modern alternate is Silver plate. The associated gemstone is Imperial topaz.
What is the traditional 23rd anniversary symbol?
Silver plate. This entry comes from the 1937 Anniversary Books Bureau codification of the wedding-anniversary gift list, adopted by Emily Post and carried into every major published list since.
What is the modern 23rd anniversary gift?
Silver plate. The modern alternate list was published in 1948 by Chicago jeweler Helen Marek, updating the traditional list with more practical and contemporary categories.
What gemstone is associated with the 23rd anniversary?
Imperial topaz. Gemstone designations follow the 1957 American Gem Society standard.
Why is Silver plate the 23rd anniversary gift?
Silver plate at year twenty-three is the modern list's pragmatic note, heirloom-quality without the sterling weight. The marriage has earned the gleam. Imperial topaz the gemstone is the rare orange-pink variety.